Heartbreak can feel like the ground disappearing beneath you. It bends memories, blurs the truth, and leaves a heavy silence where laughter once lived.
Sometimes your ex was wrong.
Other times, you hurt you by not facing your own patterns.
This isn’t about blame.
It's about clarity, healing, Growth and coming home to yourself.
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Together, we’ll go through 40 thoughtful questions — helping you uncover whether you or your ex were the healthier, stronger partner.
🧠 Are You Better Than Your Ex?
Not just a quiz — a mirror.
A diagnostic for the heart.
A digital therapist, gently whispering truths you've tried to ignore. Answer honestly! Discover your true story.
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1. When you think about the end of the relationship, what feeling comes up first?
2. How did you usually handle conflicts with your ex?
3. When your ex gave you feedback or criticism, how did you react?
4. How much responsibility do you believe you had for the relationship ending?
5. How do you view yourself compared to your ex now?
6. How did you support your ex's personal goals or dreams during the relationship?
7. When your ex was upset or stressed, how did you usually react?
8. How often did you apologize sincerely when you realized you were wrong?
9. In disagreements, how much effort did you make to see your ex’s point of view?
10. How did you behave in private versus how you behaved in public with your ex?
11. When making important decisions, how much did you involve your ex?
12. How often did you compare your ex to other people (even silently)?
13. Think about how often you made your ex feel truly safe and valued.
14. How honest were you about your needs and feelings during the relationship?
15. How do you talk about your ex now when you mention them to others?
16. Reflecting now: What do you think your ex needed most from you?
17. Did you ever try to change your ex into someone they weren’t?
18. When you were happiest together, what was your attitude toward your relationship?
19. How much of your true self did you show to your ex?
20. In your daily habits or routines together, how fair and equal was the effort?
21. When your ex disappointed you, how did you usually respond?
22. After arguments, how willing were you to forgive?
23. How much did you encourage your ex to grow as a person, even if it meant growing apart?
24. During your relationship, how much emotional independence did you maintain?
25. How do you think you handled jealousy?
26. How did you act during moments when your ex succeeded more than you?
27. How much did you respect your ex’s need for space and individuality?
28. When thinking about the future with your ex, how realistic were your expectations?
29. How willing were you to work through the relationship's hard phases?
30. In what way did you show appreciation for your ex?
31. How open were you to learning from your ex’s feedback or suggestions?
32. When you think about your ex now, how honest are you with yourself about your part in things?
33. In conflict, how important was "winning" the argument to you?
34. How comfortable were you admitting vulnerability (fear, sadness, insecurity) to your ex?
35. How often did you prioritize your own happiness over the health of the relationship?
36. When your ex was happy without you (e.g., hobbies, friends), how did you feel?
37. How fairly did you share emotional labor (e.g., checking in, problem-solving, supporting)?
38. How did you handle times when your ex needed more from you than you were ready to give?
39. How quickly did you recognize and repair your mistakes once you realized them?
40. After the breakup, what has been your main focus?
